TomTom and I have reached an accommodation (I think)

We spent a fruitful hour last night talking about our different world views. I believe I now understand where TomTom is coming from, unfortunately the resolution involves me manually checking each route on the device and looking for places where TomTom has decided that it doesn't like the route I planned. I can then delete the waypoints TomTom disapproves. This is a bit time consuming, and it does mean the route isn't quite what I planned, but that is the price of a good continuing relationship. We will see today if it results in harmony.